Young Mom Must Keep It Together As Husband Wants To Leave

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I was browsing yahoo.com and I came across a article called Young Mom Must Keep Her Wits As Husband Considers Leaving. A young mom wrote a woman nick-named Abby about her marriage. Her and her husband have one child already and one on the way. She was seeking advice to save her marriage. Her husband was not in love with her anymore and he didn’t have a reason why. She also wanted to seek counseling but he didn’t. She is doing everything to make it work but he has no interest in her anymore.

I read some of the comments and I have the same opinion as everyone else. He has taken interest in someone else and he doesn’t want to tell her. I can say that because I was in that same situation when I was married to my son’s father. After our son was born, he started fooling around with other women. We started fighting more and eventually I begin to put two and two together and when it came out, it came all the way out.

When you are dating, you try to ask the right questions and avoid the bad apples at all costs. You find that person that earns his love for you and they earn your trust so you believe them. Only to find out after you marry him and pop out a baby, he doesn’t feel the same about you anymore. I am not saying all men are like that because that’s not true. They still have couples that stay married forever and the husband is more than wonderful to his wife. For the other percentage of men that are idiots, I feel that they are not “marriage material”. They have some men that are made just for a “good time” if you know what I mean. Now, they don’t know that they are not marriage material so it is up to you when to send him on his way. Marrying a man that is not marriage material has consequences and I realized that the hard way.

Go take a look at this article and tell me what you think below.

Young Mom Must Keep Her Wits As Husband Considers Leaving

Ending The Yo-Yo Cycle!

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My steps walked after a workout at the gym.

In October, I finally made it up in my mind that I was going to stop the yo-yo cycle. I decided that I would focus more on my health and wellness and not let simple things distract me from my weight loss goals. What I mean by distractions is eating something fattening and then giving up on my regimen. What I also have bad is getting on the scale and if the scale does not say what I think it should say, I get discouraged. Continue reading

In Doing It All, We Neglect An Important Person: Ourselves

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Yesterday morning I was watching the Today Show and Maria Shriver was discussing her series “Doing it all”. Doing it all is a series discussing women’s changing roles in society, their struggles they may face, and what can be done to change that feeling of being overwhelmed and often undervalued. Continue reading

And You Are Complaining Because….

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Why is it that when a father is not doing what they are supposed to be doing for their child it’s an issue. You may call you’re child’s father asking when you’re going get a payment and I am sure you get one of these answers if you get a response at all:

  • “Why you calling me with that?”
  • “Now is not a good time to talk. I’ll call you back.”
  • “I’m going to pay it Friday when I get paid.”
  • And that’s just to name a few… Continue reading